Catholic Wedding Program Wording
The first example is shown with all of the wording used in the traditional Catholic wedding ceremony. Below it, you will see an abbreviated version of a Catholic wedding ceremony.
THE NUPTIAL MASS
Prelude
Chiming of the Hour
INTRODUCTORY RITE
Procession of the Wedding Party
“Song”………………………...........................Composer
Entrance of the Bride
“Song”………………………...........................Composer
Greeting
The Kyrie
Opening Prayer
Father, you have made the bond of marriage a holy mystery, a symbol of Christ’s love for his Church. Hear our prayers for (Bride) and (Groom). With faith in you and in each other they pledge their love today. May their lives always bear witness to the reality of that love. We ask you this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Sit.
LITURGY OF THE WORD
Old Testament
Genesis 2:18-24
A reading from the Book of Genesis
The Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone. I will make him a helpmate.” So from the soil the Lord God fashioned all the wild beasts and all the birds of heaven. These he brought to the man to see what he would call them; each one was to bear the name the man would give it. The man gave names to all the cattle, all the birds of heaven and all the wild beasts. But no helpmate suitable for man was found for him. So the Lord God made the man fall into deep sleep. And while he slept, he took one of his ribs and enclosed it in flesh. The Lord God built the rib he had taken from the man into a woman, and brought her to the man. The man exclaimed: “This at last is bone from my bones, and flesh from my flesh! This is to be called woman, for this was taken from man.” This is why a man leaves his father and mother and joins himself to his wife, and they become one body.
This is the word of the Lord. Thanks be to God.
Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 112:12, 3-4, 5-7a, 7bc-8, 9
Leader: Happy are those who do what the Lord commands.
All: Happy are those who do what the Lord commands.
Leader: Happy the man who fears Yahweh by joyfully keeping his commandments! Children of such a man will be powers on earth, descendants of the upright will always be blessed
All: Happy are those who do what the Lord commands.
Leader: There will be riches and wealth for his family and his righteousness can never change. For the upright he shines like a lamp in the dark, he is merciful, tenderhearted, virtuous.
All: Happy are those who do what the Lord commands.
Leader: Interest is not charged by this good man, he is honest in all his dealings. Kept safe by virtue, he is ever steadfast, and leaves an imperishable memory behind him; with constant heart, and confidence in Yahweh.
All: Happy are those who do what the Lord commands.
Leader: He need never fear bad news. Steadfast in heart he overcomes his fears: in the end he will triumph over his enemies.
All: Happy are those who do what the Lord commands.
Leader: Quick to be generous, he gives to the poor, his righteousness can never change, men such as this will always be honored.
All: Happy are those who do what the Lord commands
New Testament
1 Corinthians 12:31-1-13:8a
A reading from the first letter of Paul to the Corinthians
Be ambitious for the higher gifts. And I am going to show you a way that is better than any of them. If I have all the eloquence of men or of angels, but speak without love, I am simply a gong booming or a cymbal clashing. If I have the gift of prophecy, understanding all the mysteries there are, and knowing everything and if I have faith in all its fullness, to move mountains, but without love, then I am nothing at all. If I give away all that I possess, piece by piece, and if I even let them take my body to burn it, but am without love, it will do me no good whatever. Love is always patient and kind; it is never jealous; love is never boastful or conceited; it is never rude or selfish; it does not take offense, and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins but delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes.
Love does not come to an end.
This is the word of the Lord. Thanks be to God.
Stand.
All: Glory and Praise to you Lord Jesus Christ.
Verse before the Gospel
1 John 4:16
He who lives in love, lives in God, and God in him.
Gospel
Mark 10:6-9
A reading from the Holy Gospel according to Mark
(As we mark a cross on our forehead, mouth and chest we silently say, “May the word of God be on my mind, on my lips, and in my heart.”)
From the beginning of creation God made them male and female. This is why a man must leave father and mother, and the two become one body. They are no longer two, therefore, but one body. So then, what God has united, man must not divide.
This is the gospel of the Lord. Praise to you Lord, Jesus Christ.
Sit.
Homily
RITE OF MARRIAGE
Introductory Address
Stand.
Statement of Intentions
Priest:
(Bride) and (Groom), have you come here freely and without reservation to give yourselves to each other in marriage?
Will you love and honor each other as man and wife for the rest of your lives?
Will you accept children lovingly from God, and bring them up according to the law of Christ and his Church?
Exchange of Consent
Blessing and Exchange of Rings
Prayer of the Faithful
Priest:
We have listened to the word of God. Let us now ask God to listen to us, to bless our words of prayer which we offer for the people of the world.
Reader: The Response is, “Lord, hear our prayer.”
For leaders of Church and State
for heads of institutions
for heads of homes and households
that they will lead us and guide us
in the search for God and the good life
in the search for peace and joy
in the search for love among us—
let us pray to the Lord.
All: Lord, hear our prayer.
For all married people:
For those who married yesterday
For the new couple, (Bride) and (Groom), married today
For those who will marry tomorrow…
That they may savor
The joy of being together
Warm love and children
A long life, wine, and friends
And a new day, every day---
Let us pray to the Lord.
All: Lord, hear our Prayer.
For all young single people
Who look forward to a vocation
Full of life and full of love---
Let us pray to the Lord.
All: Lord, hear our prayer.
For the lonely old and the lonely young
For the hungry rich
And the hungry poor
For the sick in body, mind, and spirit
For weakness in all of us—
Let us pray to the Lord.
All: Lord, hear our prayer.
For our relatives and friends
Who walk with us on life’s journey
and for those who have gone before us
to the other side of life.
For the fulfillment of all their unfulfilled desires---
Let us pray to the Lord.
All: Lord, hear our prayer.
Priest:
These are our words of prayer today for ourselves and all human beings. Tomorrow there will be others. Lord God the beloved of humankind who has first loved us give our words by your listening the power of your word so that all things may be accomplished sweetly and gently for the happiness of all.
Through Christ our Lord.
Amen.
Unity Candle Ceremony
“Song”………………………...........................Composer
LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST
Presentation of the Gifts
Preparation of the Altar and Gifts
Prayer Over the Gifts
Preface
Nuptial Blessing
Lord’s Prayer
Sign of Peace
We shake hands with each other and say an appropriate greeting, i.e. “Peace be with you.”
Communion
“Song”………………………...........................Composer
Prayer After Communion
Final Blessing
RECESSIONAL
“Song”………………………...........................Composer
Seating of the Parents
“Air on the G String” Bach
Processional
“Canon in D” Pachelbel
Bridal Processional
“Trumpet Voluntary” Clarke
Gathering Hymn
“Love Divine” 622 in Hymnal
Greeting and Opening Prayer
The Liturgy of the Word
First Reading
Genesis 2:18-24
Responsorial Psalm
Psalm 112:1-9
“Blessed the man who greatly delights in the Lord’s Commands.”
Second Reading
1 John 4:7-12
Gospel Acclamation
Gospel Reading
Mark 10:6-9
Homily
The Liturgy of Marriage
Exchange of Consent and Wedding Vows
Blessing and Exchange of Rings
Prayers of the Faithful
The Liturgy of the Eucharist
Preparation of the Altar and of the Gifts
Gifts presented by (names)
“On Eagle’s Wings”
Eucharistic Prayer
Holy, Holy Number 166 in Hymnal
Memorial Acclamation Number 167 in Hymnal
Great Amen Number 168 in Hymnal
Communion Rite
Lord’s Prayer
Nuptial Blessing
Sign of Peace
Communion
“Panis Angelicus” Franck
Concluding Rite
Blessing
Gift to Mary
“Ave Maria” Schubert
Dismissal
Recessional
“Ode to Joy” Beethoven